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Denise Corey Coaching Blog: An occasional blog on a wide range of topics including leadership, managing difficult work situations, and gaining new business skills.

Tennis Lessons

Carol and I started our tennis match on a hot summer night. My opponent was tall, fit, and an experienced singles player. The first set was over in record time. Changing sides of the court took longer than in some of the games.

Carol would serve, and I would flail, desperately trying to return the ball. She would answer my shot with a sharply angled hit, and I would scramble across the court, waving my racket ineffectually. If I were lucky, Carol's return would be mercifully unreturnable.

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I can't be a leader-I'm not a VP

What makes a leader? (check all that apply)

  1. Provide vision

  2. Allocate resources

  3. Develop staff

  4. Raise money

  5. Set the course

  6. Create a plan

  7. Lead the Board

  8. Fire people

Leaders do all these things and many other tasks, but a leader does something far harder. Leadership shows when we connect with others in a way that brings out the best in the leader and others.

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Let Go Of The Rope

"It feels like I'm dragging everyone behind me, and it's exhausting."

I recently heard this from a new client, let's call her Susan.

"I get everyone on board, they say they're with me, and then I start hearing a list of excuses."

Susan is a charismatic visionary who craves progress and thrives on experiments. To Susan, failures are points of interest and opportunities to learn, but her team sees it all differently.

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Finding Your "Bespoke" Position

YOU MUST MAKE A JOB CHANGE. NOW!

YOU CAN WAIT NO LONGER!

Many of my clients reluctantly come to the decision that they must find a new job. After working for 10 or 15 years, they have skills, experience, reasonable pay... but no more tolerance for:

  • Bad leadership

  • Uninspiring work

  • Career limitations

  • Staying with a sinking ship

The realization that a job hunt is on their horizon, does not excite my clients. The task of finding a new, better job is really hard. These experienced professionals know that the search will tax their resilience, confidence, and stamina. The reward is a bespoke position--a job that's exciting, energizing, engaging and created with you in mind.

Finding a company that needs an experienced professional's unique set of talents and experience takes more than clicking through Monster.com or Indeed. My clients are not round pegs looking for round holes.

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The Power Of Pronouns

Let me tell you a story about a young, ambitious man; I'll call him Adam.

Adam is 30 and has worked for a well-known tech company for a couple of years as an individual contributor. Adam's peers are moving into the first level of people management without him.

Adam believes he's stuck because:

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I hate Zoom-I love Zoom-It's complicated

Welcome to 2022. Another week, another Zoom meeting.

We have been leaning into the virtual world for years now, and it looks like it's here to stay. Don't get me wrong, Zoom has saved my business, and I enjoy its convenience, but there are some serious disadvantages.

The first downside is seeing how I look to others. The truth is on my screen, and I don't like it. My bad hair, lighting, and all my smiles, frowns, and worry lines etched on my face are on full display. I don't think I'll ever get used to that.

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