Take Ownership of Your Future Self by Benjamin Hardy

https://hbr.org/2020/08/take-ownership-of-your-future-self/

Benjamin Hardy’s article, Take Ownership of Your Future Self is a must-read.

He outlines three steps to recognize the future person you want to become. We all have changed from our past selves, yet it is hard for us to imagine that our future self will be different. For some reason, we tend to think our personality and identity is fixed and we are now what we will always be. I pulled out some highlights from Hardy’s work, but please take 10 minutes and read the full article. It is powerful and empowering.

Step 1: Distinguish Your Former, Current, and Future Selves

“The truth is, you’re not the same person you were in the past. You don’t do things the same way you once did. You no longer want what you once wanted. Instead of labeling yourself and focusing on who you are today, recognize how much you’ve grown and changed from your former self.”

Step 2: Imagine Your Desired Future Self

“Put simply, your behavior in the present is largely shaped by your view of your own future. If your future is clear, exciting, and something you believe you can create, then your behavior in the present will reflect that.”

Step 3: Change Your Identity Narrative

“Start acting like your future self, rather than your former self. Embrace uncertainty and change. Embrace learning and failure. Never be defined by “now.” Engage in deliberate practice so that over time, you’ll grow into your own ever-evolving story. Take action, and invest in building your future identity.”